I need… What do I need?? You know when the little bit that you need is really A LOT??? For instance: I really need a couple of million dollars. Its not asking for a lot but at the same time it is . I think this is what dating is like for me. Im asking for a little but at the same time its a lot. This is what makes dating hard and the reason that my black ass is single. I am ok with that because I refuse to settle. I think when looking for the one my WANTS change every now and then but my NEEDS stay the same. What is supposed to seem so simple , has turned into something SUPER COMPLICATED. It seems like such an easy thing for my friends but for me… Not so much. Then that makes me wonder: “Is it me? Am I the problem??” Good God I hope not.